Chasing Dreams While Managing Motherhood

It’s no secret that motherhood can shift our focus. Our kids are a beautiful gift, but sometimes in giving them our all, we unintentionally put our dreams on the shelf. Not because we stopped caring about them, but because life gets busy. The kids are growing faster than we can keep up, bills need paying, stability is always calling, and the needs of our families seem never-ending. Honestly, it can feel like life is pulling us in every direction.

Still, just like anything left on a shelf, those dreams are not gone. They’re waiting. And it’s never too late to reach up, dust them off, and give them space again.

You might be wondering, How do I even make time for that? Time to travel, time to chase goals, time to pour into my passions. The truth is, it’s not always easy. It takes intention, sacrifice, and a whole lot of grace. But it's possible.

Here are a few things I do to stay connected to myself and the dreams that live in my heart.

Solo Trips at least once a year

One of the things I truly love is trying new foods and exploring new places. Because this brings me so much joy, I make it a point to take a solo trip at least once a year. Just me, by myself, with no distractions.

I usually plan these trips toward the end of the year for the following year. This gives me plenty of time to arrange babysitters, research travel deals, and budget carefully. Planning means I avoid the stress of last-minute preparations. When the trip finally comes, I can relax fully and enjoy every moment.

These solo trips do more than just satisfy my love for travel and good food. They give me a chance to reconnect with myself. Away from the noise of everyday life, I have space to reflect on my dreams and think about the goals I want to focus on next. It helps me return home refreshed, inspired, and ready to keep chasing what matters most to me.

My Early Morning Writing Ritual

One way I make sure I don’t lose sight of my dreams is by waking up a couple of hours before my son. Those quiet early mornings are my secret weapon. While the house is still peaceful and everyone is asleep, I use that time to write, whether it’s working on my book or creating content for my blog.

It’s not always easy to get out of bed early, especially when I’m tired. But I’ve found that starting my day with this focused time helps me feel grounded and productive. It’s my moment to be creative and work on the things I’m passionate about before the busy day begins.

These early hours won’t last forever. Soon enough, my little one will stop taking naps, and those quiet moments will be fewer and farther between. But for now, I cherish this time. So if you’re looking for a way to keep your dreams alive while managing motherhood, consider waking up a little earlier. Those peaceful moments could be exactly what you need to keep moving forward.

Good time-management

Being a mom means my days are full of tasks, appointments, and surprises. Managing all of it can feel overwhelming, but I’ve learned that good time management makes a big difference.

For me, good time management doesn’t always mean sitting down with a planner and mapping out every hour. Sometimes it’s as simple as opening the notes app on my phone and jotting down the top things I need to focus on the next day. That small habit keeps me from waking up scattered and helps me move with more intention.

Over time, I started paying attention to how I was spending my time. I noticed how easy it was to get lost scrolling on social media or doing things that were not helping me move closer to my goals. So I began asking myself, can this time be used in a better way? Could I take thirty minutes to write, plan, or work on something that matters to me?

Time management is not about being perfect. It is about being present and making choices that reflect what is important. When I choose to give my time to things that feed my purpose, I feel more aligned and have better focus.

Keeping the Faith

In the middle of motherhood, chasing dreams often requires more than just time and planning. It takes faith. Faith that the seeds I am planting now will grow. Faith that even if progress feels slow, it still matters. And faith that God sees the desires of my heart and will make a way, even when I can't yet see how.

There are days when I feel stretched thin. Days when things do not go as planned or when I question if I am doing enough. In those moments, I lean into my faith. I remind myself that I am not walking on this journey alone.

Keeping the faith means trusting that the dreams God placed in me are not an accident. They have purpose. And even as I care for my family and show up in all the ways that motherhood requires, I believe there is still room for me to grow, to build, and to become. So, if you are in a season of trying to balance it all while holding on to your vision, remember this. You're not behind. You're not forgotten. Keep the faith.

Give it your all

No matter how slow it feels or how busy life gets, I believe in giving my all to what matters. That doesn't mean being perfect or having everything figured out. It means showing up with intention. It means giving effort, even when things feel messy or uncertain.

Some days I can do a lot. Other days, I only have a few quiet minutes. But I still give what I can. I remind myself that every bit of it counts. Motherhood is a calling, and so is that dream inside your heart. You don't have to choose one or the other. You can honor both. Whatever it is, just give it your all momma.